Ok, here is my story. Its full of highs and lows and brings you up to where I am now. It’s a bit of a ‘reader’ so I apologise in advance.
It was December ’12. It had reached the point where sex between my wife and I had turned pretty stale after 8 years. It was always the same drill (pardon the pun). We would be in bed, I would suggest sex, she would agree. I’d begin by kissing her, move on to rubbing her pussy through her panties. Underwear would be removed and I would bring her to orgasm with my tongue and fingers. Then I would fuck her, mostly missionary, occasionally doggy. When I was done we would clean up and go to sleep. If I was lucky somewhere in there I might get a BJ, but not very often.
This was so saddening for me as at the start of our relationship sex had been great. We were quite adventurous (quite). We’d had sex in my parents spare room while they were right next door numerous times. Sex in the sea in Miami on our honeymoon with people just a few feet away. My wife was quite insatiable back then. She was only 19 when we met and I couldn’t keep her off me. I wasn’t complaining though. She was gorgeous (and still is) at 5’9” and about 125lbs, Brunette. Great legs and ass and best of all for me, 32E boobs that stood to attention all on their own. Absolutely the perfect looking girl. I had to sometimes pinch myself that I had gotten myself such a beautiful, sexy girl.
Anyway, everything ticked along fine for the first three to four years.
In 2009 we became pregnant. This was so exciting. Out daughter arrived in April of 2010 and this is when things started to change.
My wife gained a little weight while pregnant, but for me this just made her all the more sexier. After Grace was born my wife dropped hours at work to look after her. She trudged along like this for about a year and then in early 2011, out of boredom and frustration she started a jewellery business. To cut a very long story short this has snowballed into something neither of us could have ever imagined and it is now uber successful.
Anyway, it was about this time our sex life slowly started to fizzle out. Kathryn was unhappy with her body and lost confidence in the bedroom. I didn’t really know about any of this for a while and just figured her hormones were out of whack after having a baby and didn’t bring up the topic of our dwindling sex life so I didn’t put any further stress on her.
Then in December ’12, after having a few heart to hearts in preceding months about how unhappy we ‘both’ were with our sex life I decided to take the initiative. One day I suggested watching some porn to get us in the mood. She was a little hesitant but agreed. She had absolutely no idea I watched porn up until this point. For some reason I had given her the idea I didn’t like it (WTF?). The short films we watched really did the trick. I made sure she watched about 6 short films all while I rubbed her through her underwear etc, purposefully not letting her touch me. After about 30 minutes she was absolutely dripping and begging for my cock. The sex we had that day was incredible.
That night and the following couple of days we had numerous discussions and really opened up about fantasies. I thought ‘no guts no glory’ and fully admitted to my fantasies about fucking certain friends of hers, both with Kathryn there as a threesome and the ones where it was just me and her friend, not because I particularly fancied them massively (although these particular friends are pretty cute) but more because it would be exciting, dangerous and naughty. She didn’t mind me telling her any of this, which surprised me. She then confessed to sometimes thinking about celebrities. I told her that listening to her fantasies really turned me on. I was slowly building up to confessing everything, but wanted to warm her up first, so to speak. She even enjoyed watching me masturbate in the shower whilst telling her I was thinking of having both her and one of her friends in a threesome.
Over the following days and weeks I slowly pushed it and pushed it further. I’d send her pictures of people having sex, telling her I was fantasizing about being the man in the picture and her being the woman. I then moved on, quite bravely initially, to sending her pictures of single females and letting her know I’d like the girl to join us both in a threesome.
One day, I sent her a picture of a guy with a big, thick cock sticking it to a girl who looked as though she was loving every moment. I said in the message I would love to see HER be the girl, riding down a cock that big. The reply to this message was not as quick as the previous ones in the same conversation. Eventually she simply replied with ‘So it would turn you on to see me get fucked by another man?’. As I typed my response I was trembling and sweating. This is what I had been building up to so I had to go through with it now, my reply was simple ‘Yes!’ followed very quickly by ‘As long as I could watch!’, I absolutely shit my pants when I pressed send, ‘too late now…’ I thought.
Again it took a while for a response, and thankfully she seemed ok with it. She questioned why it would turn me on and how long I’d had this fantasy. After a while, I managed to prise it out of her that she was ‘intrigued’ by the thought of being fucked by a big, thick cock and how it would feel inside of her. Well, these messages were too much and I had to nip to the toilet in work and sort myself out. I was dripping wet through.
In the months that followed we further opened up. She kept saying she was intrigued but didn’t think she would ever go through with anything. I bought a big, thick strap on dildo that I could both fuck her with strapped on over my own cock and that I could also use to fuck her with as she sucked my cock. The hornier she got the more she admitted to and finally admitted to being really turned on at the thought of being taken by two men, one either end. It also came out that she is a submissive. She likes being tied up and blindfolded and then I do whatever and she has no idea whats going to happen next.
Things took a further step one weekend when she went to stop with her friend. They were going out to bars and clubs, in a city foreign to both of them. I told her to be careful and also text her friend and asked her to look after Kathryn. All three of us exchanged banter via text. When they were actually out her friend text me and asked if Kathryn had a hall pass. ‘New opportunity’ I thought. I replied, ‘Yes!’. Pretty much straight away I got a text from Kathryn asking what I meant. I replied saying I was giving her free reign to do whatever she wanted as long as she enjoyed herself and more importantly remembered enough about it to tell me all the sordid details after. She sounded a little shocked but after a little coaxing agreed that she would try.
Anyway, she didn’t do anything that night, and on other nights out she hasn’t done anything either but I always remind her about the permanent hall pass I have given her with the only stipulation being that I get to hear about everything. She always say she will try her best to pluck up the courage to at least kiss someone. She has readily admitted that it turns her on to think of going out, dancing, flirting, kissing and allowing another man to touch her all over, without going as far as having sex, so she would get super horny and then come home and take her frustration out on me. I have told her she could go as far as she wanted, have sex with someone, but just tell me about it after as it will turn me on to a degree she had never seen.
We now ALWAYS use the third person fantasy when having sex as it gets Kathryn so massively horny, and sex has completely changed. We always do something different, toys, dress up, role play, light submissive stuff etc
That is, when we actually have sex, but that is a different post and topic entirely
So, what do you guys think? Do you think if I keep gently pushing this she will eventually agree to fucking another guy, either with me as a threesome, or so I can watch? After reading all of that I have to admit she sounds very keen. I hadn’t realised just how keen she seems until I wrote it all down in one place. The problem for us I think will be finding someone and getting all the circumstances perfect so she is in the right mood to go through with it.
Any tips anyone?
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed reading, sorry it was so long.
Dan