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Reply #30 on: December 12, 2017, 04:39:08 PM

So, is it an age thing Merv?  Did you stay erect longer afterwards when you were younger?


Without Google’ing a long scientific answer, male hormones block the return lines on the blood flow to the penis.  A second hormone released during orgasm starts the flow again.  So I assume young men have more of the first and stay hard longer.

I would stay erect inside my college girlfriend after cumming, and slowly start thrusting again, until I had a full erection and would initiate another round of fucking.  We would fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck, until my cock looked like rare steak meat by sunrise.  I think we did it 13 times one night.  I was perpetually hard.

Now I’m staring down 60 and we both have to coax a good erection out, like a shy turtle.  I still enjoy the act, but I’m not stoked out on a sea of testosterone, losing my mind over the urge to empty my nuts.

This pretty much describes me as well.

I have access to viagra and have taken it exactly twice.  The second time was when I was a bit drunk and afraid I would need some help, that was just piece of a pill.  The doctor had offered me free samples of 50mg and 100mg, so soon after and the first time I took a whole 50mg as an experiment.  He told me it would take about 2 hours.  In less than 20 minutes my wife could have done chin ups on the darn thing, and it didn’t go down for a couple hours.  So now I have cut what I have into approximately 25mg pieces in case it’s needed.



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Reply #31 on: December 19, 2017, 02:41:23 PM
In the "Ask a Female a Question" thread, Killer Moth asked this question:


What is your attitude towards semen? Does the idea of being "cum upon" have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Do you like to eat or, or do you do it because it pleases your partner, or not at all?


I'd like to ask men this question, from the opposite point of view:

Does the idea of cumming upon her have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Why? (And I'm aware that for many sex-related questions, "Why?" is unanswerable.) Does it give you greater pleasure is she swallows? Again, why?






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Reply #32 on: December 19, 2017, 03:16:05 PM
Does the idea of cumming upon her have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Why? (And I'm aware that for many sex-related questions, "Why?" is unanswerable.) Does it give you greater pleasure is she swallows? Again, why?

That is a set of questions with as many answers as there are men. Some of us do like to cum onto a girl, and the why, as you rightly put it, has many reasons, varying from "she likes it" to the humiliation. I waver on the subject: it looks hot when I cum on a girl, but it has to be done right, with cum on the right places. Otherwise, it's just a mess.

As for the swallowing, I think the majority of men prefer a girl who can swallow, with reasons including easier to clean up, the sexiness of the act of swallowing, and the power play behind it.

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Reply #33 on: December 19, 2017, 04:07:51 PM
pretty much the same as Army of One... there's just something hot, even sleazy about cumming on a woman.

And yes, swallowing enhances pleasure.   Same reason as before.  A woman who spits is hot, but there's something utterly sleazy about a woman who swallows.  Like a woman who licks her own  cum juice I suppose.

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Reply #34 on: December 19, 2017, 04:09:28 PM
Have you noticed how power features in all of this?

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Reply #35 on: December 19, 2017, 04:22:01 PM
Have you noticed how power features in all of this?
Ehmm.. I suppose so.   Come to think of it... you probably have a point.  This being said... how much about sex is *not* about some form of power play?

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Reply #36 on: December 19, 2017, 04:24:56 PM

Have you noticed how power features in all of this?


Doesn't power -- or the lack thereof -- play a role in very many aspects of erotic enjoyment?

Even the most romantic and mutual acts of lovemaking have, within them, subtle shifts of power and control, and the seizing or surrendering of power and control.






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Reply #37 on: December 19, 2017, 04:25:15 PM
Have you noticed how power features in all of this?

Same way it does in nature, if you’ve ever watched a stag mount a doe.  Predatory behavior is redirected into sexual energy in many species.  Undoubtedly part of the problem with men acting creepy.  Please note that "men acting creepy" is *not* a "political" topic.  It is a life topic.  And the gentlemen, whose name I mentioned previously, is *not* a politician.  Lighten up people.
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Reply #38 on: December 19, 2017, 04:39:11 PM
Does having someone deep throat your cock really feel better then just sucking on the head?


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Reply #39 on: December 19, 2017, 05:37:58 PM
Does having someone deep throat your cock really feel better then just sucking on the head?


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I’ll let you know when and if I ever experience mine deep throated.

On the topic of power, there’s more to male arousal through receiving oral than the sensations of the girl’s mouth, at least for me.  My arousal is increased dramatically by using some force, hands gripping her hair and humping her face.  If she’s making submissive noises, that adds to it too.  Of course this only works for me with a submissive girl that wants that sort interaction.  My late wife was absolutely fine with a forceful facefuck, perhaps her most endearing quality.

I’m talking with a girl about a possible meet.  Not long ago she and I discussed how she likes sex to be a little rough, including oral.  She apologetically told me she can’t seem to get rid of her gag reflex.  I said to her don’t worry, you gagging will turn me on.  It’s funny, I have to text things like that to keep her texting back.  Otherwise the conversation lags.



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Reply #40 on: December 19, 2017, 09:27:20 PM
Does having someone deep throat your cock really feel better then just sucking on the head?


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Same here as with Jed. No real experience. But it probably seems like the aforementioned power play at work again, since the head is the most sensitive part of the penis.

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Reply #41 on: December 19, 2017, 09:52:11 PM
I’m going to elaborate a bit here.  With my wife it generally started with me on my back and her doing the work.  At some point, and she could sense it, I would turn her sideways and start humping her face.  She did this thing of squeezing the base with her slick saliva coated hand on each outstroke that felt like my cock was completely in her warm wet mouth.  I don’t know if that’s how deep throating feels, but I’m inclined to think her hand gripped it much tighter than lips could and made it better.

That said, I would love to see a girl take all of me, her eyes looking up at me waiting for me to let her breath again.



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Reply #42 on: December 20, 2017, 06:11:58 AM
In the "Ask a Female a Question" thread, Killer Moth asked this question:


What is your attitude towards semen? Does the idea of being "cum upon" have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Do you like to eat or, or do you do it because it pleases your partner, or not at all?


I'd like to ask men this question, from the opposite point of view:

Does the idea of cumming upon her have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Why? (And I'm aware that for many sex-related questions, "Why?" is unanswerable.) Does it give you greater pleasure is she swallows? Again, why?






Part of the reason why I asked this question to begin with was that I had a girlfriend long ago who loved to be ejaculated on, or at least performed enjoying it effectively. Her reasoning, which she admitted was corny, was that it was a kind of warm and came from inside me, and that it was like "touching my essence." So I liked that reasoning, and though our sex life was pretty tepid (long story), I remember with fondness occasions of coming on her tits, on her tummy, etc. With a different woman, for reasons I cannot quite justify, I found it very sexy that I came on her belly and she went to bed without cleaning it off, so it was dried to her in the morning.

So I don't want to entirely embrace the "it's about power" explanation or some "marking my territory" kind of thing, because I always thought of it as more spiritual, somehow. Like the semen, while certainly also a sticky, sometimes inconvenient substance, is also a something magical: an organic externalization of my passion. Same with swallowing it -- it feels like acceptance. It's not a deal breaker if it doesn't happen but it's nice.
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Reply #43 on: December 20, 2017, 07:13:18 AM
I'd like to ask men this question, from the opposite point of view:

Does the idea of cumming upon her have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Why? (And I'm aware that for many sex-related questions, "Why?" is unanswerable.) Does it give you greater pleasure is she swallows? Again, why?


Not really.  IMHO the only thing semen is good for is making babies (and lube for round 2 I suppose, but my refractory period is getting too long to be able to do that very often).  Otherwise it is an unfortunate and messy side effect of orgasm, and the less time spent cleaning it up before we can cuddle, the better. 
As for the power thing, I'm a bit of a submissive.  I get more turned on by feeling like I am irresistible than by being in control myself.  Having married someone who feels much the same, there are regular disagreements over who gets to be on the bottom.



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Reply #44 on: December 20, 2017, 08:07:26 AM
Does having someone deep throat your cock really feel better then just sucking on the head?


;)
It's a bit overrated I think.  It's definitely a turn on to see your whole thing disappear in a woman's mouth.  I guess it's pretty much the same as what I said on the cumming on the body: it's a sleazy thing.
But as far as the pleasure is concerned, the first few inches is where the fun is.  And of course much of the pleasure is also derived from variation.  At least for me it is.  There's x.xx inches to play with plus two nuts. 

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