just go to a gay bar sure you can find a cock to suck or fuck I did once wasn't what I wanted although wasn't bad smooth cock has it's allure
Okay, but it's not necessarily just cock. I mean, obviously if all you want is a dick, you can find a guy that's willing, pretty easily. The Glory Hole fantasy can be a lot more specific than that, it might be the setting (Often a dirty restroom) the position, anonymity, or just something one always imagined, but couldn't find on their own. Believe it, or not, an Active GH can be a lot harder to find than a willing gay, or bi-curious man. Even when you find the hole itself, there's no way to assure that there's anyone on the other side. You could wind up waiting a long time, and go home unsatisfied, if nobody else is there to share it. There's actually quite a bit of luck involved, unless you arrange for it somehow ahead of time. Hence the messages you've probably seen on bathroom stalls, "For a good time, call: 867-5309..." Or saturday night, after the janitor cleans them, that sort of thing.