Hi, cheer4one. Welcome to KB. Everyone here has been wonderful since I joined a few months ago. I posed a question early on.
Am I alone in the depth of my depravity? You will find the post if you do a search. I received similar responses to what you are getting. The bottom line is YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I find irony in the fact that the people I've met on KB, individuals that the rest of 'civilized' society would call deviants, are nicer and more helpful than most of the 'normals' I know.
As I've said, I've seen, heard, thought, felt, and found interest in just about everything sexual (and life in general for that matter). Nothing shocks or offends me so if anyone ever needs an ear, feel free to PM me.