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on: August 19, 2021, 06:44:10 PM
I got to thinking about past experiences and to be honest, began wondering if any body has been as stupid as me. I have twice said no when propositioned. The first one, I don't think was very serious. My best friend and I were out for the sole purpose of getting drunk. His girl friend showed up and he proceeded to piss her off. So, there I am, minding my own business and she walks up behind me. I lean my head back so I can see her and she asks me to make love to her. I was so drunk that I didn't really understand what she was asking until she said it a third time. Once I did understand her, I said no. I was dancing with her later and told her there were to reasons I said no. The first was she was my best friends girl friend. The second -- I was too drunk to get it up.

The second was the young lady in question was half drunk (she had gotten off work at noon) and I was tired (busy day that for me lasted 8 hours). I was trying to sleep when she called. We had slept together the previous week end. I told her politely that at that moment I was rather tired. She tried to convince me by saying she could come over and cuddle but I stuck to my guns. She didn't talk to me for two months. We did eventually fall into bed one more time.

Any ways guys, you don't have to identify yourself. But how many of you have said no to a sure thing.

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Reply #1 on: August 19, 2021, 06:59:54 PM
Unfortunately I have penis with a conscience. If I don't see a future it's a no go... I need the emotional connection



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Reply #2 on: August 19, 2021, 07:26:24 PM
I don't think I've ever had the opportunity of a "sure thing".  Not sure if I'd take it or not at this point.  Maybe?



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Reply #3 on: August 19, 2021, 07:51:25 PM
Well, I've never had a offer in terms of one night stand or even friends with benefits, but I'm not sure I'd say Yes.

...just because my cheesy, sappy self would develop romantic feelings sooner than later and ruin the arrangement with my emotional attachment.

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Reply #4 on: August 19, 2021, 08:09:41 PM

Once I hit 40, the pussy was being thrown at me. Because all the women that I grew up with and had known were getting divorced, and discovered the market was pretty bleak.

But I have to know, and perhaps even like, someone before I’m willing to give them the dick. And this stuff about sending me nude pics before we even have a cup of coffee, just a huge turn off. It really gives a certain feeling of desperation to the whole thing. And who needs that?

I usually have a wing man standing by on the first or second date, to give me a ring about an hour into things. That way, if a train derailment is in progress, I can just say I have something to take care of home. An emergency has come up.
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Reply #5 on: August 23, 2021, 07:45:24 PM
I will say this:  Delving into the depths of sexual depravity as I have these many years, and have had many chances with women who knew the depths of it all and wanted to be drawn into it all.  And my conscience just would not let me lead them down that path. Oh how I wanted to and add them to the list of it all. Sad a man has that kind of thought at those times.



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Reply #6 on: August 24, 2021, 03:50:48 AM

Sex with a partner carries an implicit responsibility, if you don't want things to end badly, for you AND for your partner.

I'm less fucked for it, and happier overall. People willing to hurt themselves for a tryst are not anyone I want to have sex with.



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Reply #7 on: August 25, 2021, 02:14:58 AM
I got to thinking about past experiences and to be honest, began wondering if any body has been as stupid as me. I have twice said no when propositioned. The first one, I don't think was very serious. My best friend and I were out for the sole purpose of getting drunk. His girl friend showed up and he proceeded to piss her off. So, there I am, minding my own business and she walks up behind me. I lean my head back so I can see her and she asks me to make love to her. I was so drunk that I didn't really understand what she was asking until she said it a third time. Once I did understand her, I said no. I was dancing with her later and told her there were to reasons I said no. The first was she was my best friends girl friend. The second -- I was too drunk to get it up.

The second was the young lady in question was half drunk (she had gotten off work at noon) and I was tired (busy day that for me lasted 8 hours). I was trying to sleep when she called. We had slept together the previous week end. I told her politely that at that moment I was rather tired. She tried to convince me by saying she could come over and cuddle but I stuck to my guns. She didn't talk to me for two months. We did eventually fall into bed one more time.

Any ways guys, you don't have to identify yourself. But how many of you have said no to a sure thing.

The only thing I will regret on my death bed are the opportunities I said no to.

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Reply #8 on: November 11, 2021, 01:05:41 AM
I answered two.

The first time was at a nigh club in Houston when I was a deputy working security off duty.  She was sitting at the bar in a long black dress and I had glimpsed her watching me for awhile.   I figured she either had a thing for guys in uniform or was watching me for one of the gangbangers selling dope in the mens room.  I walked past her and she said hello.  I said hello back.  Then she says, "My pussy is soaking wet" and smiled at me  I was sort of embarrassed a little so I stuttered some reply I don't remember.  We talked for a few minutes about nothing.  I had to pass as I was in uniform and coud've gotten in trouble, and because I had a girlfriend at the time.  She wasn't the typical bar-fly.  She was actually your older milf and actually sort of hot.

The second time was a young lady I knew from work.  She had a kid about 7 years old at the time and a husband.  We had flirted a little.  One day she called tech support to tell me her printer wasn't working .  Normally the first thing done in that situation is checking all the cables were plugged in to the back of the computer.  I crawled under her table and plugged the printer in, somehow (maybe intentionally) it had come unplugged from the wall outlet.   While I was under there I noticed she spread her legs open as the chair would allow.   Nothing was really said at that point.  She emailed me a few hours later thanking me for fixing her printer.  I responded with something like, "You're welcome.  But it sure was hard to concentrate seeing you with those white lace panties on."  She replied "Whatever!"  A few days later she asked me to come to her house and figure out why her sons xbox wouldn't connect to the Internet.   Her husband was working late at the print shop (I don't know if that was intentional or not) and after I got finished making some changes on her router, the kid asked if he could go play with his friend next door.  Mama told him go ahead but be home by 6pm and he ran off.  At that time I was standing in the living room.  She was sitting on the living room floor, indian style, in loose shorts.  Her right hand was up inside her right pants leg.  I noticed she was meat gazing me.  You just don't know how badly I wanted to unzip my pants and show my cock in between those pouty lips.   All I could think of was the kid having a broken family, and me being the cause, so I made an excuse to head out with a hard on.   I don't know if she was a "hot wife" or just cheating on Charlie, or if I was just reading a lot of signals wrong but I got the "feeling" it was a "fuck me" moment.



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Reply #9 on: November 12, 2021, 06:35:20 PM

I think you should have added a "never" option. I'm not sure it would have been a sure thing but many, many, years ago a woman at work was obviously flirting with me and thrusting her more than ample tits at me. She was wearing a tight thin white sweater and probably a very soft bra because those ample tits were topped by very visible and erect nipples. Previously I had confided in her that Mrs Obi was very jealous of women that I worked with and I had a hard time convincing her I wasn't cheating on her.  The colleague had then suggested that I should make the hard time worthwhile with "someone". Her husband often worked away so the opportunity was there, what put me off was that she was butt ugly (shame on me) and had a bad case of halitosis. I can't remember much these days but I can still picture those glorious tits and proud nipples 


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Reply #10 on: November 12, 2021, 06:54:23 PM
Honestly I am so horrible with knowing when a woman is flirting, idk how many times I have let a sure thing get away. 😂 why don’t all women just bluntly say stuff like “hey, I like you,” “you want to go out?” Or “let’s fuck.” 🤣



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Reply #11 on: November 12, 2021, 07:19:16 PM
I got to thinking about past experiences and to be honest, began wondering if any body has been as stupid as me. I have twice said no when propositioned. The first one, I don't think was very serious. My best friend and I were out for the sole purpose of getting drunk. His girl friend showed up and he proceeded to piss her off. So, there I am, minding my own business and she walks up behind me. I lean my head back so I can see her and she asks me to make love to her. I was so drunk that I didn't really understand what she was asking until she said it a third time. Once I did understand her, I said no. I was dancing with her later and told her there were to reasons I said no. The first was she was my best friends girl friend. The second -- I was too drunk to get it up.

The second was the young lady in question was half drunk (she had gotten off work at noon) and I was tired (busy day that for me lasted 8 hours). I was trying to sleep when she called. We had slept together the previous week end. I told her politely that at that moment I was rather tired. She tried to convince me by saying she could come over and cuddle but I stuck to my guns. She didn't talk to me for two months. We did eventually fall into bed one more time.

Any ways guys, you don't have to identify yourself. But how many of you have said no to a sure thing.

I found myself reading this in Bruce Campbell's voice. Poor Bruce


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Reply #12 on: November 12, 2021, 10:09:06 PM
From ages 13 to 50 I was either a supervisor or manager where I worked and work is where I was often propositioned. In case you're not aware of the "MeToo" movement I avoided the pitchforks and torches of the angry townfolk because I simply didn't catch when the young cuties threw themselves at me. And I tell you, I turned down some fine booty. I also never used work as a portal to my personal life (i.e. didn't try to date women from work).

Something that always counted against me is my older sisters pounding into my head that "women always respect gentlemen." In the workplace, yeah, as a mate, hell no. It worked being a gentleman in the workplace. I was only accused of sexual harassment twice in my career and both times it was because I was selected over a female for a promotion (one was quietly ushered out of the company and the other was caught on tape plotting against the head of HR-yeah, she lost her job).



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Reply #13 on: November 13, 2021, 05:52:08 PM

I think you should have added a "never" option. I'm not sure it would have been a sure thing but many, many, years ago a woman at work was obviously flirting with me and thrusting her more than ample tits at me. She was wearing a tight thin white sweater and probably a very soft bra because those ample tits were topped by very visible and erect nipples. Previously I had confided in her that Mrs Obi was very jealous of women that I worked with and I had a hard time convincing her I wasn't cheating on her.  The colleague had then suggested that I should make the hard time worthwhile with "someone". Her husband often worked away so the opportunity was there, what put me off was that she was butt ugly (shame on me) and had a bad case of halitosis. I can't remember much these days but I can still picture those glorious tits and proud nipples

Reminicing about the above has reminded me of another time I turned down the chance to fondle (and maybe more) a pair of female breasts. During the annual university ball I found myself alone in a dormitory room of a college friend of the yet to be Mrs ODK.  The breasts in question were not large but were perfectly formed and attached to an extremely attractive blonde that I had lusted after ever since I was introduced to her by TYTB Mrs.  We had both availed ourselves of the buffet and standing there with her hands full she spilt some crumbs on the bodice of her ball gown and, pushing out her breasts, said "if only someone could brush them off".  I was taken aback and by the time I realised what a golden opportunity I was being given someone else, probably TYTB Mrs, entered the room.


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Reply #14 on: November 13, 2021, 06:00:27 PM
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Reply #15 on: November 13, 2021, 08:47:29 PM
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Reply #16 on: November 14, 2021, 02:11:03 AM
Because it is a shot to the confidence, and the sting lingers i remember ever time I've been told no. This does not include the times the guy was be nice because I was drunk off my ass slightly inebriated.

Six times, I was turned away. So for those who say no, you're definitely not alone



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Reply #17 on: November 14, 2021, 09:17:30 AM
Because it is a shot to the confidence, and the sting lingers i remember ever time I've been told no. This does not include the times the guy was be nice because I was drunk off my ass slightly inebriated.

Six times, I was turned away. So for those who say no, you're definitely not alone

Who the hell in their right mind would turn you down? They must be dumb or crazy! I would never stop trying to go for a woman as beautiful as you Shiela. Especially since you have such an amazing personality!



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Reply #18 on: November 15, 2021, 02:10:51 AM
Having been in the swing lifestyle for 20+ years I've had my share of ladies who would like to play but the interest on my part just was not there.



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Reply #19 on: November 20, 2021, 07:18:40 PM
I sometimes dwell on these events and what might have happened.

In one case I was out of practice and just too nervous. On others, it was with friends whom I wasn't strongly attracted to. Once (or maybe twice) I was just drunk and oblivious, and didn't really put two and two together till after the fact.

On one occasion I met an old friend and his new girlfriend at a bar, we seem to hit it off and they invited me to swing by their house. On paper that seems like an invitation to a threesome but I didn't think about it for years later -- I suppose I could still ask him but it might be awkward.