I think the forum has evolved through the years into an online cocktail party. We talk about food, travel, music, sports, literature, beverages, and yes, sex. But we’re not so focused on the sex that everything has to be about “extreme” subject matters.
This happened for two reasons. First, in 2018, we decided to eliminate anything involving underage content with ages 13 and below. And that set off what I refer to as the “pedo bear war“ which more or less decided if this forum was going to be about child pornography, or something a little more diverse. it was tough, we lost a lot of members, but in the end, I think the board was better off for it.
Then in 2022, the site got shut down twice. An individual who referred to himself as “concern citizen“ made numerous complaints to authorities about KB’s content, and got it booted off two different servers. So we were forced to impose additional subject matter restrictions. It has nothing to do with “free speech“ it simply has to do with Do we want to continue as a forum or not? And if we do want to continue as a forum, we had to impose additional restrictions on subject matter content.
But I agree 100% with Staci, we don’t like new people to show up and start sending dick pics to everybody, or hitting people up for sex. KB is more like a family. We have each other‘s back. And nobody is going to sexually harass my friends.