I completely lost count. Between parties and when I was a prostitute (x-husband wouldn't get a job after being kicked out of the Marines, we had a kid, I couldn't find a job anywhere else- I wasn't on the street, (because that makes it better in my mind. I was a high class ho) but my son was provided for without being on welfare.)
But for my personal life there have been 4 men, 1 woman. One of the men and the woman I am still with. (husband & girl friend)
And then my first time was when I was raped- I don't count that at all for anything other than something that colored on my canvas.