Are “lady boners” a real thing? What sort of circumstances or activities cause one? I sometimes wonder if a coworker might be suffering from a throbbing clit, looking for an excuse to hit the restrooms and rub one out.
:emot_laughing:
The perfect female orgasm: what tips can you suggest to males to achieve one out of their female partners? And can girls "squirt" from these orgasms?
Are “lady boners” a real thing? What sort of circumstances or activities cause one? I sometimes wonder if a coworker might be suffering from a throbbing clit, looking for an excuse to hit the restrooms and rub one out.
:emot_laughing:
Are “lady boners” a real thing?
What sort of circumstances or activities cause one?
......looking for an excuse to hit the restrooms and rub one out.
It would swell to just barely peek out from between the labia.......looking for an excuse to hit the restrooms and rub one out.
Nope. Never felt the need to take care of it.
The perfect female orgasm: what tips can you suggest to males to achieve one out of their female partners?
And can girls "squirt" from these orgasms?From my knowledge on the subject, very few can, most can't.
What is your attitude towards semen? Does the idea of being "cum upon" have an intrinsic pleasure for you? Do you like to eat or, or do you do it because it pleases your partner, or not at all?
The perfect female orgasm: what tips can you suggest to males to achieve one out of their female partners? And can girls "squirt" from these orgasms?
Are “lady boners” a real thing?
Yes, they are a real thing.What sort of circumstances or activities cause one?
In my early 20's I might be making out with a guy and it would happen. Or in anticipation of sex. There were times I was just sitting at my desk. Other times it might have come out of nowhere. Or I could have been thinking of something. I recall the first time it ever happened. My sister and I were sunning in the backyard in our bathing suits. It was really hot out. I was actually drifting off to sleep and then I was like "wtf?" I went inside to see what the heck was going on. I was kind of scared. My sister laughed when I told her in my "why tf did it do that" voice. She said it never happened to her but she had one friend that it happened to all the time. It would swell to just barely peek out from between the labia. I recall it only happened when I was sitting still. Never while moving or walking. It happened with much less frequency in my mid-late 20's, but occasionally it did.
Over the last 14 years, it has and still does happen on a rare occasion (once or twice a year), but it is not like then. I feel the swelling, but it doesn't extend outward. It's wider but shorter to the size of a marble, but stays hidden away. I need to move things to see it, where as before it would lengthen 3 times what it does now. I ignore it and it goes away. The thing that is different now than back then is I can feel it pulse with my heartbeat. It's just a very very light ping. It also goes away very quickly, 2 to 3 minutes. Probably because I put it out of my mind. If I think about it it might last a bit longer.
Only once did it happen and not go away quickly. It was about an hour. I was 15 minutes into a very boring meeting. *ping* *ping* *ping* and the ping grew to many times what it started out. But not something that would make me have a moment. The one thing I remember about that day that is my butt cheeks had fallen asleep, not sure if that had anything to do with it. Just a weird thing all around.......looking for an excuse to hit the restrooms and rub one out.
Nope. Never felt the need to take care of it.
Try a better vibrator. ~ grin~
Try a better vibrator. ~ grin~
Men are from Mars.
Women are from Venus.
Guys feel the need to take care of their swelling problem.
My question is about desire and the menstrual cycle. Are you horniest around ovulation? How about period sex - hot except for the mess or just not into it?
While we're on the subjects of genital fluids, what is your attitude towards your own? I've encountered everything from "needs me to wash off immediately to avoid coming into contact with its taste and smell" to "loves me to feed it to her off my fingers."
And how literal is "I'm getting wet" as an expression of arousal?
While we're on the subjects of genital fluids, what is your attitude towards your own? I've encountered everything from "needs me to wash off immediately to avoid coming into contact with its taste and smell" to "loves me to feed it to her off my fingers."
And how literal is "I'm getting wet" as an expression of arousal?
You probably don't need this biology lesson, but when a woman becomes aroused, her body produces a natural lubricant, for obvious reasons. That's why, for many women, foreplay is both a psychological desire and a biological necessity.
Thus, "I'm getting wet" is an apt description of arousal, since arousal produces these natural lubricating fluids. "I'm getting wet" is also a really bad cliche featured in most bad porn movies, but that's neither here nor there.
I'd suspect that at one point or another, every woman has "tasted herself." And, of course, every solicitous man has "tasted" a woman. (It's par for the course for lesbians.)
The quantity, viscosity, thickness, etc. of vaginal secretions very from woman to woman. Some women produce a lot, some women produce a little, and women some do not produce enough for comfortable vaginal intercourse, thus the availability of artificial lubricants.
Wow, I'm getting a little wet just thinking about this topic... ;)
While we're on the subjects of genital fluids, what is your attitude towards your own? I've encountered everything from "needs me to wash off immediately to avoid coming into contact with its taste and smell" to "loves me to feed it to her off my fingers."
And how literal is "I'm getting wet" as an expression of arousal?
You probably don't need this biology lesson, but when a woman becomes aroused, her body produces a natural lubricant, for obvious reasons. That's why, for many women, foreplay is both a psychological desire and a biological necessity.
Thus, "I'm getting wet" is an apt description of arousal, since arousal produces these natural lubricating fluids. "I'm getting wet" is also a really bad cliche featured in most bad porn movies, but that's neither here nor there.
I'd suspect that at one point or another, every woman has "tasted herself." And, of course, every solicitous man has "tasted" a woman. (It's par for the course for lesbians.)
The quantity, viscosity, thickness, etc. of vaginal secretions very from woman to woman. Some women produce a lot, some women produce a little, and women some do not produce enough for comfortable vaginal intercourse, thus the availability of artificial lubricants.
Wow, I'm getting a little wet just thinking about this topic... ;)
Yeah, I think I would have a hard time typing out a few paragraphs about the experience of having an erection without one kicking in...
The last part of that question, I was just wondering how reliably the early stages of arousal manifest for different women through noticeable wetness vs. other somatic responses (nipples stiffening, etc.).
I had the thought a million times that if I were a girl I’d do it with everything.
This is a silly question but one that I’ve always wondered about.
To this day to a degree, but especially when I was a horny young person learning about sex, I would see any number of ordinary objects that were remotely phallic and wonder what it would be like to use them to masturbate a girl. Anything from the obvious cucumbers to hairbrush handles to the less obvious things like the old returnable pop bottles. It’s probably a function of how often guys masturbate, but I had the thought a million times that if I were a girl I’d do it with everything.
So do girls have those same thoughts about phallic objects?
Out of curiosity: in this scenario, you can no longer experience vaginal penetration of any sort (fingers included), but all other forms of stimulation (clitoral included) are still available to you. How disappointed are you, on a scale of 1/10?
So, if a guy were to buy a dildo or vibe for their female significant other (personal tastes aside for the purpose of this hypothetical), you'd be more inclined to recommend a clit stimulator, or a vibe with a clit stim, than a straight up dildo?
Out of curiosity: in this scenario, you can no longer experience vaginal penetration of any sort (fingers included), but all other forms of stimulation (clitoral included) are still available to you. How disappointed are you, on a scale of 1/10?
My disappointment would be 0/10.
Other women should chime in here, but for me, penetration, especially deep penetration, isn't a necessity when masturbating. And I suspect I'm in the norm. The videos you see of a woman masturbating by plunging something deep inside her appeal to men, and not, in general, to women.
Even vibrating dildos are chiefly used for external stimulation. The clitoris is like the head of a penis x 50.
What is your favourite and least favourite slang term for female genitals?
Resting a hand there is okay. When he's laying on his back, he will lightly place a hand while running his fingers through my hair. I actually like that. He said it's he's petting me for doing a good job. But I don't think that's what you mean.
For me, a hand on the head is okay, but not with force. Giving a little extra push to the back of the head is a definite no-no that results in a quick ending to it. It is for me to determine how far it will go in.
A boyfriend in my early 20's would use force on the back of my head. I hated it, but never fought him about it. I was inexperienced in orally pleasing a guy, he was my first. I allowed it because as he put it, he was "teaching me how to give a bj correctly". I never allowed anyone else to do that to me after him.
Every female likes different things.
Every female likes different things.
Yes, and this thread only makes sense if we're taking the attitude that we're asking specific women for their specific opinions.
...do keep in mind that most of the women you'll meet here are pervs and weirdos, pretty much by definition...
In your experience, is there a functional (as opposed to aesthetic) difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises?
In your experience, is there a functional (as opposed to aesthetic) difference between circumcised and uncircumcised penises?
If you’ve ever watched “The Masters of Sex’ on TV based on the Masters and Johnson studies from the ‘60ies, you may have noticed that all the guys on there seem to use the same technique for vaginal penetration (the director thinks it's hot, I guess). Once they are in, they withdraw very slowly and then really ram it back in (repeat as often as desired). What do you ladies think of this technique? Too rough? Distracting? Just right? Wife doesn’t want to commit to an answer, maybe someone on here can help?
When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?
I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?
And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?
When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?
I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?
And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?
I now feel kind of bad for not asking, because this question has sat on my curiosity for a long while.
When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?
I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?
And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?
Two questions in one go, indulge me why don'tcha...
You ever:
1. Been tempted to or fantasized about asking a hot guy if you could suck him off, because maybe he was out of your league or in a relationship, but what guy is going to turn down an offer like that?
2. Been in a long-term relationship but would immediately fuck a guy you have the hots for (maybe the partner of a friend?) if he asked you and there was a good chance no one would find out?
And do keep in mind that most of the women you'll meet here are pervs and weirdos, pretty much by definition...
When a man ejaculates inside you, can you feel it?
I mean, comparing with and without a condom, can you sense his ejaculate entering you?
And if you can feel it, Is it a pleasant or erotic feeling?
When I was younger I could always feel it. It was usually younger guys, so I think it was more of a stronger ejaculation, or more pressure on his release. I could always feel there was a warm gooey feeling spreading a bit inside of me. But that feeling was over with in 10 secondsish as it reached my own body temperature quickly.
With a condom, I could never feel a thing. I only knew when he had by his facial and bodily actions.
After 25 years of sex, it doesn't feel the same. I might feel pressure at that moment, but don't feel the warm gooey sensation I mentioned in my earlier days. My guy also doesn't orgasm with a lot of pressure behind it. Nor has anyone in the last 10 years or so. It also might have to do with my senses....seeing his face and his body react along with the noises he's making.....That has most of my attention and I'm not paying any mind to trying to feel him cum inside me. Or I just blank it out because the feeling isn't that big of a deal. Plus my own feelings and things going on with my mind and body pretty much overrides that he just made a deposit.
I'll try and pay closer attention next time and report back to you. If I remember in the heat of the moment. ;)
When you ask Is it pleasant or erotic?
The actual presence of sperm in my vagina, no.
That I made him feel so good that he ejaculated inside me, yes.
Now, if you want to ask about performing oral sex on him, you might get a different answer.
Question for the women that have done it: Why do women fake orgasm's instead of telling their partner what they're doing wrong?
Question for the women that have done it: Why do women fake orgasm's instead of telling their partner what they're doing wrong?
We came to an understanding that it was okay if she didn’t cum and that we would be honest about that. I try to get her there but understand that it’s not going to happen every time. We are both good with that.
Question for the women that have done it: Why do women fake orgasm's instead of telling their partner what they're doing wrong?
Because they’re just glad it’s *over* and they don’t have to be a sex mattress for your sweaty humping, until the next time? :emot_laughing:
Question for the women that have done it: Why do women fake orgasm's instead of telling their partner what they're doing wrong?
Because they’re just glad it’s *over* and they don’t have to be a sex mattress for your sweaty humping, until the next time? :emot_laughing:
N.B. "Ask a FEMALE a question"...
Is licking your own nipples, if feasible mechanically, at all pleasurable?
Okay, at the risk of revealing my ignorance about the female body, I have to ask two questions.
1) Is it physically possible for a woman to have 70 orgasms in one day or is that literary license?
2) Can a woman be trained/forced to have an orgasm just by hearing a particular word spoken aloud?
Please be kind with your answers. I'm a guy who didn't even know what a clitoris was until I was in my 40s and by then it was too late.
I don't think that your ignorant. While reading this story I had the same questions.
1) Is it physically possible for a woman to have 70 orgasms in one day or is that literary license?
2) Can a woman be trained/forced to have an orgasm just by hearing a particular word spoken aloud?
1) Is it physically possible for a woman to have 70 orgasms in one day or is that literary license?...there is no way I could keep that up for say (70 divided by 6 = 11 more sessions like that. Times 20 minutes. 11 x 20=220 minutes divided by 60, carry the 1. ) 3 hours 41 minutes of stimulation. Things start getting sore or uncomfortable after a time.
I think it's closer to the realm of fantasy than reality...
Sometimes a girl just needs to bend over and get banged like a screen door in a hurricane.
So is that hyperbole? An expression of sexual frustration? Just smart ass humor?
It's me again. I have another question for any and all female persons.
Here's the back story. I was sitting in a coffee shop and there were two young women at the table next to me. It was impossible not to hear their conversation.
One told the other that she now owned 104 pairs of shoes. I think my eyes bugged out a little. I myself own 3 pairs of shoes, including a pair of sandals that I haven't worn for three years.
They continued talking about shoes including what I assume were brand names like Jimmy Chew (Choo?) and Mansolo or something like that. I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box, but from what I was hearing, I don't think you would find the shoes they were talking about at your local Wal-mart.
I've never owned a pair of brand name shoes, and never once in my life paid more than $25 for a pair of shoes.
I have a two-part question for you.
1. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
2. What's the most you've ever paid for a pair of shoes?
Thank you very much,
Remmy
PS: I know this is a sex-talk forum, but I have the feeling that for some women, shoes and sex are somehow tied together. And I didn't know which other forum might be more appropriate.
I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box, but...
I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box, but...
Isn't the saying, "...not the sharpest knife in the drawer." or "... not the brightest crayon in the box."
;D,
Jules
the bigger they are the better.
I have a two-part question for you.
1. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
2. What's the most you've ever paid for a pair of shoes?
It's me again. I have another question for any and all female persons.
Here's the back story. I was sitting in a coffee shop and there were two young women at the table next to me. It was impossible not to hear their conversation.
One told the other that she now owned 104 pairs of shoes. I think my eyes bugged out a little. I myself own 3 pairs of shoes, including a pair of sandals that I haven't worn for three years.
They continued talking about shoes including what I assume were brand names like Jimmy Chew (Choo?) and Mansolo or something like that. I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box, but from what I was hearing, I don't think you would find the shoes they were talking about at your local Wal-mart.
I've never owned a pair of brand name shoes, and never once in my life paid more than $25 for a pair of shoes.
I have a two-part question for you.
1. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
2. What's the most you've ever paid for a pair of shoes?
Thank you very much,
Remmy
PS: I know this is a sex-talk forum, but I have the feeling that for some women, shoes and sex are somehow tied together. And I didn't know which other forum might be more appropriate.
Yes PSI, I'm afraid we have drifted...(https://i.imgur.com/PYZJ6pa.gif)
And I'm also not the type of girl who would buy a pair of shoes where the designer's last name begins with "Blah." ~MissBarbara
7 of them are due to me 'forced' to buy them to be a bridesmaid. ~MintJulie
Just for the heck of it (and your question) I went through my closet. ~Elizabeth
I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box, but...
Isn't the saying, "...not the sharpest knife in the drawer." or "... not the brightest crayon in the box."
;D,
Jules
Okay ladies. I'm going to hand you a magic wand. With it you can change ONE thing about the entire male species. What would you do with such a potent power?
Next on my list would be to wave the magic wand and prevent all men from looking or staring at the female species in a creepy manner. I don't like to feel like I'm being undressed by the guy at the gas pump next to me.
We found that a ring handled convex bladed neck knife lowered "Boob oogling" (The term used in the study) to 3%.
Is this what you meant?
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Next on my list would be to wave the magic wand and prevent all men* from looking or staring at the female species in a creepy manner. I don't like to feel like I'm being undressed by the guy at the gas pump next to me.
* to clarify, in reading another topic this afternoon I learned I shouldn't classify all men in this category. My apologies to you that are gentlemen and don't partake in such activity.
To be realistic, I think most all heterosexual men partake in ogling women, at least to some extent.
Ogling =/= staring.
Yes, looking is abusive if you keep staring long after the attention is obviously unwanted.
Okay ladies. I'm going to hand you a magic wand. With it you can change ONE thing about the entire male species. What would you do with such a potent power?
My initial response was the same as PSI's. Walk a mile in our shoes and better understand us.
Next on my list would be to wave the magic wand and prevent all men* from looking or staring at the female species in a creepy manner. I don't like to feel like I'm being undressed by the guy at the gas pump next to me.
* to clarify, in reading another topic this afternoon I learned I shouldn't classify all men in this category. My apologies to you that are gentlemen and don't partake in such activity.
But some men will not only leer, they will do so with the intent of making the the woman or girl very uncomfortable if not actually afraid.
Which brings us back to the patriarchal bs that got us on this thread in the first place.
I didn't ask the question.
Guys, stop mansplaining on this.
#Resist
a decade or more younger? Older?
What are your feelings on dating, or at least sex with, a guy who is a decade or more younger? Older? Do you derive anything different from this compared to someone closer to your age?
a decade or more younger? Older?
Than what? We need 2 numbers here, if she's let's say 23, than a decade or more younger is getting pretty ew. If she's in her 40s? Less so.
Tell him to let you show him, with a pair of gloves. If he can't take it, then at least he can understand why you can't.
suggesting she try and go against her nature and shove things up a guy’s ass does not seem like sound advice.
I believe Kathy considers herself to be submissive and is looking for a way to better experience anal. While seeking a man more experienced in such activities seems sound advice, suggesting she try and go against her nature and shove things up a guy’s ass does not seem like sound advice.
Unfortunately my knowledge in this area is theoretical, but if I were to attempt advice it would be to purchase a set of butt plugs and use them (or preferably find a dominant non-abusive man to tell her to use them).
* As Psi put it, too much lube is almost enough.
* As Psi put it, too much lube is almost enough.
Staci said it first, but it's important enough to repeat again:
If she smokes after sex, try more lube.
‘Do you smoke after sex?’
‘I don’t know. I never looked.’
Reading a novel, I came across the phrase "Kinsey-6 lesbian" but the context was not enlightening. Can any of you educate me?
Thanks,
Remmy
Reading a novel, I came across the phrase "Kinsey-6 lesbian" but the context was not enlightening. Can any of you educate me?
Thanks,
Remmy
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
6 means “exclusively homosexual” on the scale.
Reading a novel, I came across the phrase "Kinsey-6 lesbian" but the context was not enlightening. Can any of you educate me?
Thanks,
Remmy
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
6 means “exclusively homosexual” on the scale.
I've never heard of that either.
It seems kinda bogus to me...
Reading a novel, I came across the phrase "Kinsey-6 lesbian" but the context was not enlightening. Can any of you educate me?
Thanks,
Remmy
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
6 means “exclusively homosexual” on the scale.
I've never heard of that either.
It seems kinda bogus to me...
Kinsey’s research has been largely discredited through the years, both for its methodology and the conclusions he drew from it. I suspect “Kinsey 6 lesbian” is more of a literary device than an actual term used by the cognoscenti.
Kinsey’s research has been largely discredited through the years, both for its methodology and the conclusions he drew from it. I suspect “Kinsey 6 lesbian” is more of a literary device than an actual term used by the cognoscenti.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
6 means “exclusively homosexual” on the scale.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
6 means “exclusively homosexual” on the scale.
Thanks Toe. And I learned a new vocabulary word: cognoscenti (plural of cognoscente) meaning a person who has expert knowledge in a subject.
Remmy
Or Cognizant. If that helps you remember better.
Regardless, nobody knows the rating system used by LGBT people better than LGBT people, and she was rating herself. So, no cognoscenti know her personal rating, of her own sexuality, better than she does. By invalidating Robert Kinsey, and the Kinsey Scale, by extension you're subtly invalidating her own sexual identity. Using a big intellectual word in an Appeal to Authority doesn't really change how she feels about her sexuality.
"Well, actually..." That's been invalidated, she can't be a 6, because Kinsey is invalid.
That's Ignorance, appealing to those in the know, to make her appear ignorant, in absentia.
(Wait: Can I say "bullshit" and "for fuck's sake" in a non-1408 thread?)
I would assert that no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale, and that everyone falls somewhere in between --
I would assert that no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale, and that everyone falls somewhere in between -- whether they know it or not, or whether they admit it to themselves of not.
I would assert that no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale, and that everyone falls somewhere in between -- whether they know it or not, or whether they admit it to themselves of not.
On that bullshit scale that is meaningless, you're asserting that all the straight guys are secretly a little bisexual, but just don't know it yet? Interesting. How did you come to this conclusion, did you ask anyone, or did you just Assert that?
No one, has ever been gay, or straight. Did I read that right?
Also I didn't mention gender. Not once, so you're confusing sexuality, and gender for me.
Onto the fictional nature of the character, a 100% lesbian, in a sexual fantasy. That's a fantasy, right? Not a real character. Granted, written by a man, but regardless, we can accept fantasies about Magical Powers of Mind Control, which have no basis on reality.
I would assert in somebodies' sexual fantasies, the basis in reality is moot.
no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale... everyone falls somewhere in between
If you scroll back you'll find that "she" is a fictional character, created by a novelist. "She" doesn't actually exist, and even "she" doesn't know her "personal rating."
Wait: "Personal rating"?!?
While your and my personal experiences clearly differ, I've yet to meet any "LGBT people" who employ a "personal rating system." Nor, for that matter, do they look to books written in the 1950s, or the early 1900s, to try to understand themselves better.
Labels are bullshit, and rating systems are even more bullshit.
And, for fuck's sake, can we please stop confounding gender, gender identity, sexual identity, and sexual orientation?
(Wait: Can I say "bullshit" and "for fuck's sake" in a non-1408 thread?)
The "novelist" who described his character as a "Kinsey-6 lesbian" (or who created a character who described herself as a "Kinsey-6 lesbian) is, simply put, a bad writer. "Describe, don't state," right? It shouldn't matter where she falls on some hypothetical, decades-old scale (of whatever viability). Even in creating her as a sexual being, who expresses her sexuality -- whatever it is -- she shouldn't be reduced to numbers.
I would assert that no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale, and that everyone falls somewhere in between -- whether they know it or not, or whether they admit it to themselves of not. Most important of all, by forcing people to define themselves, or to place themselves on scale like this, does damage to their process of understanding themselves -- and understanding others.
Like 0.01 to 5.99, but never approaching 0 or 6 like it’s a physical limit such as the speed of light?
Most things are quantifiable, but this particular attribute seems to be about as unquantifiable as they cum.
Then what the fuck were you saying? If nobody is a 0 (Straight) nor a 6 (Gay) then what are they, exactly? Because in case you weren't aware, that's what those numbers you say nobody is mean.
It kinda sounds like you're saying, and I quote:
no one is either a 0 or a 6 on that scale... everyone falls somewhere in between
"Somewhere in between" would be somewhat bisexual, whether they want to admit it, or not. Maybe they just haven't met the right guy? (Says every guy when they're informed by a lesbian, that she's a lesbian) So, you're going to have to explain how that's not saying that nobody is either gay (6) or straight (0) There's no other way I can interpret that assertion. You used very clear, and absolute (No one) language, with no room for variation.
"Labels are bullshit, and rating systems are even more bullshit."
My point was the exact opposite. There's infinite room for variation. And attempting to view the amazing varieties of human sexuality using mathematics is, you guessed it, "bullshit."
The effects of trying to strictly label people, and to put them in tiny little boxes, is clearly deleterious, or at best counter-productive.
Now, we can talk about it, even knowing that every time we do, In SEX TALK, some fuddy duddy is going to step in to "Well actually," and shut the conversation down. Or derail it over semantics.
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Nope. Nope.
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NO UNDERAGE SEXUAL DISCUSSION ALLOWED
Did the member request to have their account removed?
I have a question I noticed on KB I think it was bald pussy a woman using one of those cock vacuum pumps on her pussy, My question is to what purpose and is it a good idea could you cause some injury?
Question: how common is it for women to surreptitiously check out a guy's pants bulge, in a public or ordinary encounter setting?
Only Hershels.
Question: how common is it for women to surreptitiously check out a guy's pants bulge, in a public or ordinary encounter setting? I do this quite frequently actually, but I'd like to know where on this behavior line I fall, in comparison to others.
How difficult do you find it to reconcile these feelings with your actual lives?
Would this stimulator product (https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/755645919/womens-gold-clitoral-exposing-g-string?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=labia+spreader&ref=sr_gallery-1-8&cns=1) work for you?
http://www.kristensboard.com/forums/index.php?topic=65854.0
This question popped up and was discussed somewhere else as well, though I can't recall where.
For the record, I can, but I never would...
I thought there was a thread also. I think I might have been thinking of "Eat your own" or something like that.
You can? Okay you guys are all WAY more flexible than me.
And for the record, I wouldn't either.
So I'm not understanding why my fellow KB ladies would not orally please themselves if they could. Surely you stimulate yourselves when the need arises what difference is it if it's your fingers, toy, or your own tongue? Other than comfort because it cant be easy to breath bent in half like that.
I lost my virginity to a somewhat older woman (six years older, when that age difference meant quite a lot), and she later told me that she got off on the idea of being someone else's first, of being in a position of sexual mentorship, etc. I wonder, how common is that of a fantasy among women?
All I needed was a friend to lend a guiding hand
But you turned into a lover, and, mother, what a lover you wore me out
All you did was wreck my bed, and in the morning, kick me in the head
Oh, Maggie, I couldn't have tried any more
You led me away from home 'cause you didn't wanna be alone
You stole my heart, I couldn't leave you if I tried
Good song and words to live by. :DAll I needed was a friend to lend a guiding hand
But you turned into a lover, and, mother, what a lover you wore me out
All you did was wreck my bed, and in the morning, kick me in the head
Oh, Maggie, I couldn't have tried any more
You led me away from home 'cause you didn't wanna be alone
You stole my heart, I couldn't leave you if I tried
Rod Stewart, Maggie May, 1971. Good song.
Do women actually have an interest in CFNM? Or is that just a male fantasy?
Rod Stewart, Maggie May, 1971. Good song.
Do women actually have an interest in CFNM? Or is that just a male fantasy?
I don't. But I'm only one person. I'm sure there are women who are into it.
There was this one time though.... um, yeah, but I can't talk about it.
I dunno...maybe if I offer the right price...Do women actually have an interest in CFNM? Or is that just a male fantasy?
I don't. But I'm only one person. I'm sure there are women who are into it.
There was this one time though.... um, yeah, but I can't talk about it.
Can't and won't are different verbs.
Do women actually have an interest in CFNM? Or is that just a male fantasy?
I don't. But I'm only one person. I'm sure there are women who are into it.
There was this one time though.... um, yeah, but Ican'twon't talk about it.
I'm fairly certain many of you girls have interacted with guys who have been absolute creeps. So how do you go about getting them to—for want of a better phrase—stand down? And does it always work?
I'm fairly certain many of you girls have interacted with guys who have been absolute creeps. So how do you go about getting them to—for want of a better phrase—stand down? And does it always work?
I'm fairly certain many of you girls have interacted with guys who have been absolute creeps. So how do you go about getting them to—for want of a better phrase—stand down? And does it always work?
Super easy, I would just start to talk. Usually, they look at me wondering if I'm drunk off my ass, at first. Then realization kicks in and they walk away.
Success rate: 100%
I'm fairly certain many of you girls have interacted with guys who have been absolute creeps. So how do you go about getting them to—for want of a better phrase—stand down? And does it always work?
Super easy, I would just start to talk. Usually, they look at me wondering if I'm drunk off my ass, at first. Then realization kicks in and they walk away.
Success rate: 100%
Depends on the person. I am a man and despite what my wife may say, am still in possession of my balls. I’ve never wanted anyone to be rough. A caress actually can be a little scary for me. Maybe I’m different.
Two words come to mind.Yeah, they are pretty sensitive things, unless you have rubber balls, or figurative steel ones like msslave. On the upside, light finger around the package feels pretty good, and can even help a guy relax enough to sleep.
Ouch.
and the second word.
OUCH
I can flick Dan's testicles lightly with my pointer finger and he'll yelp like a little girl.
Which brings up the question: what sensitive areas can guys run a finger around to help you relax, and especially enough to help you sleep?
But there has been nothing where I'll say, "touch me there, I need to get some shut eye."Well, I didn't mean something like a Vulcan nerve pinch. I know it isn't a switch.
This one strikes home hard for me. No wet noodle needed, it wasnt what you said, but how you said it.
It took me over a year before I was comfortable enough to have sex after David. It wasnt fully because I didnt trust men, it was because that intimacy was tarnished. Whenever I got close to sleeping with somebody, I'd have flashbacks. Just being nude in front of a guy made me shake. Therapy, close friends, and a guy I trusted since childhood got me through that, so the word rape, is a touchy one for me.
I like it a little rough, and that should be no secret by now. Push me into furniture, man handle me where you want me and what position. Grab my neck/throat. Even a few slaps here and there. Call me some names and tell me that I belong to you. Dont tell me you want to rape me. After many many years, I've finally been able to whisper to guys that I want them to "rape me" I know that what happens next is exactly what I want.
Just change up the words next time, see if that works. You still get your point across, get your desires out there and use your word, and she may feel a bit safer/comfortable with it.
"I'm going to f@#$ you so hard you're going to think you've been raped."
I've been told that during some heavy petting. Nearly ripped the zipper on his pants trying to get them off. That's just a person experience.
Im not going to tell you never say it, just be careful with it, love. :emot_kiss:
We've always heard that gals are excited through touch but not by visual stimulation, and the opposite for men. I am surmising that that is a very individual matter for each person, but what say you ladies?
Well, I know that this man is, but I also am aware that I am very visual. I just was not sure how many women are turned on by visual without the aid of actual touch from a partner.
Well, I know that this man is, but I also am aware that I am very visual. I just was not sure how many women are turned on by visual without the aid of actual touch from a partner.
For me, I can easily be turned on by a visual. It gets things started, but so can a scent or a few spoken words. Anything done in a specific way that triggers that part of my brain turns me on. Sometimes the suggestion is better than the actual visual. Sets my mind wondering and gets me imagining.
Do I need to see him completely erect? Not necessarily, but I do appreciate the sight.
Does feeling it pressed against me during a deep kiss get me even hotter? Oh hell's yeah.
I also don't need to see him thrusting into me. I'm more focused on the feeling. Where his hands are, his mouth. Love feeling his body work against mine.
This is just me though. My favorite position is prone, so I'm almost not even able to see anything, and I also like a good blindfold. Keep me guessing what and where the next touch with be.
Not sure if that really answered you question. Seeing a man can turn me on, but I dont need to everything to stay there.
I'm thinking back to when I was in the Army. In two rooms, there were 6 of us, and it almost seemed like when one was coming off, another was starting. We didnt all sync up and have them at the same time, but one of was having it every week. It just depends on the women. Sometimes they're stronger and last a day or two longer. There is no set time as to when they start ot when they stop, so don't set your clock to them.
The difference for me, was that I was still taking birth control at the time, and since I would skip my placebo week, I really wouldn't get my period. I actually stopped taking them for a month just to allow myself my natural cycle. After that month, I was back in them.
I'm thinking back to when I was in the Army. In two rooms, there were 6 of us, and it almost seemed like when one was coming off, another was starting. We didnt all sync up and have them at the same time, but one of was having it every week. It just depends on the women. Sometimes they're stronger and last a day or two longer. There is no set time as to when they start ot when they stop, so don't set your clock to them.
The difference for me, was that I was still taking birth control at the time, and since I would skip my placebo week, I really wouldn't get my period. I actually stopped taking them for a month just to allow myself my natural cycle. After that month, I was back in them.
Sheila's correct. And this is more of a math question than a female anatomy question.
The whole thing about women's menstrual cycles "syncing" is pure myth. Back in the 1960s, a Harvard professor named Martha McClintock conduced a study among 135 women living together in a college dorm, and her date indicated a "syncing" of their menstrual cycles. This became known as the "McCintock Effect," and it was accepted as gospel. McClintock's study, however, failed to take into account a number of other factors that might have contributed to her observation, and modern studies indicate that syncing does not occur.
I'm thinking back to when I was in the Army. In two rooms, there were 6 of us, and it almost seemed like when one was coming off, another was starting. We didnt all sync up and have them at the same time, but one of was having it every week. It just depends on the women. Sometimes they're stronger and last a day or two longer. There is no set time as to when they start ot when they stop, so don't set your clock to them.
The difference for me, was that I was still taking birth control at the time, and since I would skip my placebo week, I really wouldn't get my period. I actually stopped taking them for a month just to allow myself my natural cycle. After that month, I was back in them.
Sheila's correct. And this is more of a math question than a female anatomy question.
The whole thing about women's menstrual cycles "syncing" is pure myth. Back in the 1960s, a Harvard professor named Martha McClintock conduced a study among 135 women living together in a college dorm, and her date indicated a "syncing" of their menstrual cycles. This became known as the "McCintock Effect," and it was accepted as gospel. McClintock's study, however, failed to take into account a number of other factors that might have contributed to her observation, and modern studies indicate that syncing does not occur.
Thanks MissB, the issue of syncing was the first thing I thought of when I read the initial question.
Dispelling these myths, misinformation and otherwise things taken as gospel that aren’t true has never been more important than now. We can see the incredible damage misinformation does by the example of the flawed and later debunked article claiming a connection of vaccines and autism that was the main trigger for these anti-vaxer kooks.
modern studies indicate that syncing does not occur.
modern studies indicate that syncing does not occur.
Note to self.. vaginas do in fact not communicate with each other via bluetooth. :emot_laughing:
I find the persistence of the menstrual cycles "syncing" myth to be somewhat puzzling. If nothing else,
Bluetooth. :emot_laughing:[/size]
"You can't touch this"
I find the persistence of the menstrual cycles "syncing" myth to be somewhat puzzling. If nothing else,
As far as menses syncing, The Big Bang Theory had the character Amy Farrah Fowler hoping that would happen to the three women on the show. I wonder if it was a male that wrote that episode? I wonder if some men find that myth interesting? I didn’t other than believing it had been a recognized phenomenon, and I find everything interesting. I now find it annoying I believed something false, but I’m also grateful to MissB for setting the record straight.
"You can't touch this"
I was going to suggest a few more song titles but noticed I was always going for the overly easy and cliched 'blood' e.g. If You Want Blood, Sabbath Bloody Sabbath
My creativity sucks :facepalm:
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
I usually feel a little flushed in the face. Then I can feel my heart beating, and then the sexiest thing of all happens...
my palms get sweaty :facepalm:
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
Personally, I feel myself go very still, very focused: but that's my reaction to just about anything that is outside the most familiar and routine, because I am odd that way. Then I start this intellectual denial of how I feel, until I consciously stop myself doing that: and by that time the moment has usually passed. This is why I am so useless at flirting.
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
Personally, I feel myself go very still, very focused: but that's my reaction to just about anything that is outside the most familiar and routine, because I am odd that way. Then I start this intellectual denial of how I feel, until I consciously stop myself doing that: and by that time the moment has usually passed. This is why I am so useless at flirting.
Let's practice.
How do you find that light arousal (say, by seeing a person or an image that appeals to you in day to day life) first registers physically? That could mean something localized (like tingling in certain body parts) or more general, like feeling overall warmth.
Personally, I feel myself go very still, very focused: but that's my reaction to just about anything that is outside the most familiar and routine, because I am odd that way. Then I start this intellectual denial of how I feel, until I consciously stop myself doing that: and by that time the moment has usually passed. This is why I am so useless at flirting.
Let's practice.
Why do you think I am here? :emot_kiss:
I don't want to dampen anyone's enthusiasm here, not do I have the right to do so, but there's already a "flirting thread," and this thread, which is a very important source of information, is best served by being kept on topic.
If you don't mind, some questions:
What are those silver rings around the base of the shaft on the three men? What do they do?
Is the curve of the cock of the man second from right normal, or is the ring making it do that?
Does the fact that some are circumcised and some are not have any affect on your judgement?
Looking at the four men, is the fact that the guy on the far right's cock is flaccid a turn on, a turn off, or irrelevant?
And a very impertinent question: For a woman who sees men in this context, if your first thought "I want that inside me" or "I want to take that in my mouth"?
Thanks!
What are those silver rings around the base of the shaft on the three men? What do they do?
Is the curve of the cock of the man second from right normal, or is the ring making it do that?
Does the fact that some are circumcised and some are not have any affect on your judgement?
Looking at the four men, is the fact that the guy on the far right's cock is flaccid a turn on, a turn off, or irrelevant?
And a very impertinent question: For a woman who sees men in this context, if your first thought "I want that inside me" or "I want to take that in my mouth"?
Never been with uncircumcised. So, I guess it does. I've heard they are not as clean. Just always been there in my mind. Heard it long ago and it stuck with me. Sorry if I offend anyone that says diff.
And Staci made the comment, "the little one to suckle" . I never really noticed that one was smaller. It's kind of like boobs on women. I don't take notice of those. Yeah, HUMONGOUS ones you can't help. Or Super small you notice. But these here, three are a bit larger than normal size, and a normal size in my experience.
All that "extra" skin just makes me pause and think, "what do I do with that?"
The extra skin?
In winter we use it as a hoodie ;D
The rings are cock rings. I've never had a guy use them, but I thought they were something used to keep them hard, like blood goes in, but doesn't come out kind of things but the guy on the end isn't hard so perhaps I'm wrong there.
The rings are cock rings. I've never had a guy use them, but I thought they were something used to keep them hard, like blood goes in, but doesn't come out kind of things but the guy on the end isn't hard so perhaps I'm wrong there.
According to the Adam & Eve web site:
"It’s no wonder that cock rings are incredibly popular—they’re one of the few sex toys that can pleasure both men and women at the same time. Penis rings work by fitting snugly around the base of the shaft, limiting blood flow from the penis. Controlling the blood flow can boost girth and length, while also helping to delay ejaculation."
The extra skin?
In winter we use it as a hoodie ;D
:emot_laughing:
The extra skin?
In winter we use it as a hoodie ;D
As Sarah said, most non-jewish men in the UK are un-circumcised. A longer foreskin can contribute to a build up of smegma (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/how-to-keep-a-penis-clean/) unless regularly washed. I find a frequent brushing with a stiff yard broom beneficial. ;D
I have been told that circumsized men can last longer becuse of a desensitising effect of having the bell-end exposed all the time.
As for guys lasting longer. Ha. unless uncircumcised guys last 30 seconds or less I've been with a few that prove that theory completely wronf.. Minute men indeed.
Even that word smegma... just has that eww sound to it.
How about straight men?
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Do straight women like making love in the 69 position?
How about straight men?
If so, is it a part of foreplay, or is it something you carry out to its natural conclusion?
Thanks!
Ladies, I have to ask. Twerking. Why in the name of satan?
Ladies, I have to ask. Twerking. Why in the name of satan?
If I were to do it, it would be for Same reason I do anything else on the dance floor, whether it looks ridiculous or not. I'm have a good time and I just do something that shows I'm having the time of my life. If you find it appealing, or not is a different story, but if I do something on the dance floor, it's because I'm enjoying myself.
I have never twerked. Shaken my butt yes, ......
I have never twerked. Shaken my butt yes, ......
I thought that was twerking. What is an out of step old guy missing here?
How sensitive in general relation to the entire vagina is the Labia Majora? My wife wont answer when I chew on them a little to see. But I almost have to draw blood on them to get a reaction. Is that normal?
How sensitive in general relation to the entire vagina is the Labia Majora? My wife wont answer when I chew on them a little to see. But I almost have to draw blood on them to get a reaction. Is that normal?
That depends. Is your teeth in or out? ;D
hickeys in that region are not appreciated. Gentle is the word.
How sensitive in general relation to the entire vagina is the Labia Majora?Considering the labia major's main purpose is to protect, it isn't as sensitive as my clit or the entrance to my vagina, but it's more sensitive than say my inner thigh.
Is that normal?
A mirror thread for males that have questions about the female experience.mine get hard when cold, I think a lot of women experience this,
Answer to first anticipated question:
My nipples get hard in response to the temperature, not sexual excitement.
My advice from personal experience.
DO NOT STOP TRYING.
I wish from the very bottom of my soul that my dad had tried harder earlier on. Would have gone to the end of the earth to try with me. I now know that he did try, but my mother blocked ever single attempt which made me think he wanted nothing to do with me. Turned me against him, so when he put more effort into trying, I wanted nothing to do with him. She lied to me and instead of trying to figure it out for myself, I just stopped talking with him. Even after my Aunt and Cousin tried to get me to listen, I would not hear them out.
It wasnt until after all the emotional and physical abuse that i reached out to him, and regretted not doing so earlier.
I feel no harm can come from you showing that you care.
Is it really true?
That witnessing a guy catching things mid-air while they fall, (E.g. this gif )
(https://c.tenor.com/LzgF8ZooJaQAAAAC/spiderman-spidey.gif)
Is considered as excitable for women/ can excite women?
Or is it just an urban myth?
If it were true, jugglers would get all the women
I will say that for the most part, 8n that particular thread the women are spread open. Their legs are open and in most cases in a position that makes entry easier. Or they are bent over and "presenting" which can have the same effect. As I stand in my kitchen if I were to reach down between my legs, I'm 100% certain my labia are doing an excellent job...
...Yep, they are earning their pay.
As soon as I bend over and spread my legs, everything becomes more accessible for you fellas...
Check and check.
I'm not sure which picture you're referencing though, but I'm betting this is the case.
Here. Do I have the same problem as her?
(https://i.postimg.cc/Hk518shH/20201129-134557.jpg)
It's all about her position.
Now you're talking about where "the hole" is with reality vs diagrams and pics in books. Well I've never seen medical books with an actual photo of a real vulva and vagina. They have all been drawn pictures. So I guess the pictures were just interpretations of the artist, or maybe just made that way to help cypher the different parts of our genitalia.
Here. Do I have the same problem
The space between the vagina and the anus is called the perineum. And I have always noticed that some women have a very small one, and some women have some real estate. Also, when you spread and pull the knees towards the tits, it seems to stretch that area out and increase the distance between the portals. It’s a fun place to nibble and lick on your tongue’s journey between the clitoris and anus, and back. Lots of nerve endings. Very sensitive.
I’ve just always wondered if women who have their anus right next to their vaginal opening don’t get more infections, because of the proximity of fecal bacteria.
Here. Do I have the same problem as her?
(https://i.postimg.cc/Hk518shH/20201129-134557.jpg)
It's all about her position.
Now you're talking about where "the hole" is with reality vs diagrams and pics in books. Well I've never seen medical books with an actual photo of a real vulva and vagina. They have all been drawn pictures. So I guess the pictures were just interpretations of the artist, or maybe just made that way to help cypher the different parts of our genitalia.
My ultimate point was that there was a flaw in the female design where the Labia Major, and Minora in some cases does not look like it protects the Vaginal opening.
I find your choice of words here to be curious.
You imply that someone or something sat down and literally designed the female anatomy, but made a flaw in the design.
Sheila is correct: In the photos you have posted, the women have all stretched or contorted their bodies, thereby elongating things.
All women are different. And evolution happens.
My ultimate point was that there was a flaw in the female design where the Labia Major, and Minora in some cases does not look like it protects the Vaginal opening.
I find your choice of words here to be curious.
You imply that someone or something sat down and literally designed the female anatomy, but made a flaw in the design.
Sheila is correct: In the photos you have posted, the women have all stretched or contorted their bodies, thereby elongating things.
All women are different. And evolution happens.
I could tell that there is some minor elongation, but for the the hole to entirely not be protected in some cases is odd to me. I am not trying to start some metaphysical vs evolutionary debate. And yes Miss Barbara, I have pointed it out in the few posts on the subject that women are all wholly and wonderfully beautiful and unique. And my wife explained that some postures, and positions will make it look that way, but it still confuses me, as to how far it can leave its supposed protection. Evolution did some cool things, but in my honest opinion, it is, nor ever has been a perfect system, churning out perfect beings, its more "Does this work, if yes, lets roll with it, if no, find anything better." Because honestly, the almost perfect system of reproduction would be hermaphroditic.
I could tell that there is some minor elongation, but for the the hole to entirely not be protected in some cases is odd to me. I am not trying to start some metaphysical vs evolutionary debate. And yes Miss Barbara, I have pointed it out in the few posts on the subject that women are all wholly and wonderfully beautiful and unique. And my wife explained that some postures, and positions will make it look that way, but it still confuses me, as to how far it can leave its supposed protection. Evolution did some cool things, but in my honest opinion, it is, nor ever has been a perfect system, churning out perfect beings, its more "Does this work, if yes, lets roll with it, if no, find anything better." Because honestly, the almost perfect system of reproduction would be hermaphroditic.
I could tell that there is some minor elongation, but for the the hole to entirely not be protected in some cases is odd to me. I am not trying to start some metaphysical vs evolutionary debate. And yes Miss Barbara, I have pointed it out in the few posts on the subject that women are all wholly and wonderfully beautiful and unique. And my wife explained that some postures, and positions will make it look that way, but it still confuses me, as to how far it can leave its supposed protection. Evolution did some cool things, but in my honest opinion, it is, nor ever has been a perfect system, churning out perfect beings, its more "Does this work, if yes, lets roll with it, if no, find anything better." Because honestly, the almost perfect system of reproduction would be hermaphroditic.
You should also take into consideration that the labia are there to protect during sex as well. The vagina stretches forward towards the clit and not back towards the butt. When you're thrusting in, the labia close around the penis and rub against it in an attempt to clear any unwanted things from getting inside our vaginas.
Some are.just more predominant than others, ita not a flaw in design or change in evolution, more a genetic trait of each person. After this we can go to ask a male a question and discuss why some foreskin is tight and others look like the nose of a diseased old anteater. 🤢
personally .. I'm not seeing any problem there at all
a question: Does hose or panty hose count as underwear? or do you really need panties to wear them?
I can’t remember the last time I noticed a woman wearing pantyhose. They’re just not in style now. 40 years ago, everyone wore pantyhose. And Russian women still wear pantyhose. But there is not a single woman at my office that wears pantyhose, and I haven’t seen them out in public. Maybe at church? I haven’t been in church in a long time. But if anybody would wear pantyhose, it would be the Baptists. Born again camel toes.
I can’t remember the last time I noticed a woman wearing pantyhose. They’re just not in style now. 40 years ago, everyone wore pantyhose. And Russian women still wear pantyhose. But there is not a single woman at my office that wears pantyhose, and I haven’t seen them out in public. Maybe at church? I haven’t been in church in a long time. But if anybody would wear pantyhose, it would be the Baptists. Born again camel toes.
I noticed that too here at work, only the die hard office ladies wear them, while the interns, and low people on the totem pole don't. But I never knew why women would wear them, I asked my mom when I was younger, and all I got from here was "because." I like them, I think it adds a little professionalism to the attire, so that even if your works dress code is lax, it shows that you are caring about how you appear. I seen clients with their PA's who would wear whatever, even to the point of sweats. I would sit there and think, this deal isn't happening. But as sexy as they are, I agree with shiela, because I tried wearing a man thong, and all i can say is never again.The twig was uncomfortable, and it split the berries.
I can’t remember the last time I noticed a woman wearing pantyhose. They’re just not in style now. 40 years ago, everyone wore pantyhose. And Russian women still wear pantyhose. But there is not a single woman at my office that wears pantyhose, and I haven’t seen them out in public. Maybe at church? I haven’t been in church in a long time. But if anybody would wear pantyhose, it would be the Baptists. Born again camel toes.
My mom and sisters owned three pair each when I was growing up. One for church, one for formal dress, and one for special occasions. They were not very happy wearing them. My wife loves to wear them, even if not having to. I think they are pretty, but if they are such a pain in the ass, I wish I was talented enough to design a pair that works right, feels right and looks good.
I noticed that too here at work, only the die hard office ladies wear them, while the interns, and low people on the totem pole don't. But I never knew why women would wear them, I asked my mom when I was younger, and all I got from here was "because." I like them, I think it adds a little professionalism to the attire, so that even if your works dress code is lax, it shows that you are caring about how you appear. I seen clients with their PA's who would wear whatever, even to the point of sweats. I would sit there and think, this deal isn't happening. But as sexy as they are, I agree with shiela, because I tried wearing a man thong, and all i can say is never again.The twig was uncomfortable, and it split the berries.
I can't judge based on my professional milieu, since the average age is around 20, and most of the women dress very casually.
I own one pair of panty hose, and I've worn them exactly once in the past two years. And that was an event where the occasion on my dress seemed to all for them.
Sheila's right: They're very uncomfortable to wear., they're expensive, and they wear out or get runs very quickly. Plus, they don't stay in place, so you're constantly pulling and adjusting them. And while I wear panties with the on the rare occasions when I wear them, that means even more tugging and adjusting.
Otherwise, when it's cold out and I'm wearing a skirt or dress, I wear tights, as do most women under 60 these days.
It was definitely weird going down into their basement, and seeing all these massive skin-colored globules dangling from the ceiling, like alien pods waiting to burst.
Nope just that. Not sure what else we could. Cookaid? But thanks for pointing out how gross it is.
Lol. Pull my hair slap my ass and call me your barista!
Have you ever squirted anything other than water and urine?
Have you ever pegged a guy? Would you? Do you do anal?
I do not know if its been asked but this is based off of some weird observations and discussions with my male friends:
A:) How is hierarchy established in a group of women? I noticed with my wife and her friends that there is always that one woman the group defers to in a conversation.
To be juvenile: Is it based on the breast size? like "she with the biggest rack is Alpha that day?"
or is it "She who is older is the leader?"
or even "She who can kick our collective asses is Queen?"
Because sometimes its my wife who seems to be leader of the pack, and other times its the big busted lady, and a few times its been the jaded woman who calls the shots in the group. It is confusing to me, not to be derogatory or sexist. Please do not sic the Sisterhood on me, I am a poor humble man.
With women, it's typically personality -- and not necessarily the dominant personality.
How is hierarchy established in a group of women?
How is hierarchy established in a group of women?
I don't know, but I know it's never me :-)
I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.
Hentai:
Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.
My Cousin:
Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.
My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:
Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.
I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.
Hentai:
Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.
My Cousin:
Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.
My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:
Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.
I am definitely not "upper class." I grew up with three siblings, and my dad was a lower-level accountant and my mom was a teacher. They owned a house in the suburbs, had a car, and helped put four kids through college, but we grew up on a fairly tight budget. And I live pretty much the same way today. I live in a small apartment, and I only have one clothing item that cost more than $200 (and only one pair of shoes that cost more than $150, and they're running shoes).
Meanwhile, all of this has absolutely nothing to do with the #MeToo movement or "cancel culture." To be honest, I'm not even sure what "cancel culture" means in this context.
Consent means consent, that is, a free agreement to engage in the act that is about to occur. Walking in the front door of someone's home, or staying over at someone's home, is not consent, nor even implied consent. As Toe can explain, "implied consent," is a legal term. It applies, for example, when a person drives a car down the street, and is stopped by a police officer for potential drunk driving. The fact that the person was driving a car is considered implied consent to a breathalyzer test. To take another example, if a customer takes a seat in a restaurant and orders a meal, it is implied consent that owner is obligated to provide the food, and the customer is obligated to pay for it.
Implied consent can occur in a sexual relationship. For example, a husband and wife are lying in bed, he begins stroking her body, and she turns to him and eagerly kisses him, and strokes him, etc. It is implied, without words being exchanged, that she consents to the act which is beginning.
This doesn't mean that a woman crashing at a man's place cannot consent to have sex with him. Yes, libido is very much a thing, and contrary to popular belief, women can get just as horny and yearn for sex as much as men. But it still requires consent on her part, with nothing implicit or assumed.
I hope that clears things up for you.
"I am a pretty woman here in your house crashing the night, why wont you make a move on me?
I found a funny Hentai to watch with the wife last night on our rare night off together. But despite it being a cartoon, there is some real life stuff mixed in. It reminded me and the wife of a fight my cousin had with his now wife, but at the time they just started dating.
Hentai:
Dude brings an old high school classmate home cause she broke up with her boyfriend, and had no place to sleep. She stays at his apartment, but quickly gets bent that he does not want to try having sex with her, and they argue until she learns he was holding back because he thinks sex should be done with people you love.
My Cousin:
Just started dating a girl when he was in college, the co ed dorm loses power and water during the winter and me being the closest, hits me up for a room in my house. We hadnt lived in the house we are in now less than a year. He brings her over, with some luggage, and I give them an unused room (this was before my last daughter was old enough to leave the nursery.) And the fight broke out that he wouldn't touch her, and he was arguing that he actually loves her and thinks that in the middle of a crisis isn't the best time to fuck. They had not even reached the third dates so... They ended up doing it out of rage, anger and spite. They now have 5 kids and are very happily married, lol.
My question for the Upperclass Ladies of KB:
Is this really a thing among women? I mean I know some guys will do anything to get a lady in bed, but in this generation of #metoo, and cancel culture, Men have to be careful. But to a woman does actually crashing at a man's place equate to consent, or at least implied consent? Or is it just a libido thing? I am confused.
I am definitely not "upper class." I grew up with three siblings, and my dad was a lower-level accountant and my mom was a teacher. They owned a house in the suburbs, had a car, and helped put four kids through college, but we grew up on a fairly tight budget. And I live pretty much the same way today. I live in a small apartment, and I only have one clothing item that cost more than $200 (and only one pair of shoes that cost more than $150, and they're running shoes).
Meanwhile, all of this has absolutely nothing to do with the #MeToo movement or "cancel culture." To be honest, I'm not even sure what "cancel culture" means in this context.
Consent means consent, that is, a free agreement to engage in the act that is about to occur. Walking in the front door of someone's home, or staying over at someone's home, is not consent, nor even implied consent. As Toe can explain, "implied consent," is a legal term. It applies, for example, when a person drives a car down the street, and is stopped by a police officer for potential drunk driving. The fact that the person was driving a car is considered implied consent to a breathalyzer test. To take another example, if a customer takes a seat in a restaurant and orders a meal, it is implied consent that owner is obligated to provide the food, and the customer is obligated to pay for it.
Implied consent can occur in a sexual relationship. For example, a husband and wife are lying in bed, he begins stroking her body, and she turns to him and eagerly kisses him, and strokes him, etc. It is implied, without words being exchanged, that she consents to the act which is beginning.
This doesn't mean that a woman crashing at a man's place cannot consent to have sex with him. Yes, libido is very much a thing, and contrary to popular belief, women can get just as horny and yearn for sex as much as men. But it still requires consent on her part, with nothing implicit or assumed.
I hope that clears things up for you.
I call bull on you not being upperclass. But not in the traditional meaning of upperclass, but my meaning, being a woman of high caliber, nice, polite, not garish. I was implying by upperclass, is that the lady's of KB are great women. Thanks for the clarity. But is it a thing with women, putting consent aside, to get mad at a man for not wanting to put out when things are falling into place for it?
In the Hentai the lady was like "I am a pretty woman here in your house crashing the night, why wont you make a move on me? she accuses him of impotency, which is kind of a nuclear button for men, and then she gets what she wants but more than she expected.
The hentai in question:
Mitasarete Mezameru Asa ni, Jimi na Choushoku o The Animation
Basically, do women get frustrated over things like that?
Another question thats nagging me:
Can a woman actually have an orgasm so big that it breaks her mentally, and do women actually like and want those mind destroying orgasms? Wife says no to the whole thing, but I need a second opinion.
What other than the penis on a man, do women like to look at, or look for as attractive in a male?