Tantra massage problem

[wheninrio]

Hello,

i want to try a tantra massage at a local massage salon. Since its my first time, and im fairly young looking, and I might not be the type who walks into such a salon (im 21 btw) im a bit nervous of getting one.

I got the following questions:
Ive never retracteed my foreskin during sex, I think its too tight and it hurts when someone tries to retract it. So i am wondering if its possible to tell the masseuse my foreskin is tight so she could be gentle with it and not retract it. Or shouldnt I go to this salon in the first place with this problem?

Ive never shaved my anus, so its gonna be a hairy spot. Do the masseuses care about that? Ive tried to shave it but its just to delicate of a spot to shave with blades, even with a mirror.

Thats it, hope you guys can help

[Writers Bloque]

I have had tantra massages performed, but usually at my home or at the masseuses home. Most of the time they generally avoid the genitals until last in my experiences. You may need a doctor to check you out, as you might suffer from phimosis. A tight foreskin is a problem, a painful one. Also, most tantra masseuses have dealt with worse assholes than a hairy one. Just wash it clean, and you are golden. I would suggest you masturbate before going to see one, as it might help loosen the foreskin for the masseuse to work with. As I was clipped, I cannot relate to it, but I know of people who have phimosis. It is not your fault, its just a fact of nature sometimes. But just be relaxed and let the masseuse direct things, as your enjoyment will increase if you go with the flow, so to speak.

[wheninrio]

I have had tantra massages performed, but usually at my home or at the masseuses home. Most of the time they generally avoid the genitals until last in my experiences. You may need a doctor to check you out, as you might suffer from phimosis. A tight foreskin is a problem, a painful one. Also, most tantra masseuses have dealt with worse assholes than a hairy one. Just wash it clean, and you are golden. I would suggest you masturbate before going to see one, as it might help loosen the foreskin for the masseuse to work with. As I was clipped, I cannot relate to it, but I know of people who have phimosis. It is not your fault, its just a fact of nature sometimes. But just be relaxed and let the masseuse direct things, as your enjoyment will increase if you go with the flow, so to speak.

Thanks for your reply. I dont think I wanna masturbate at home because Ive been holding ejaculation for 3 weeks now and really want someone else to get going with it haha.  I suppose the oil will serve as lubricant?

But if i would tell the masseuse, dont retract my foreskin, will she comply and have mercy on it?

[Writers Bloque]

I have had tantra massages performed, but usually at my home or at the masseuses home. Most of the time they generally avoid the genitals until last in my experiences. You may need a doctor to check you out, as you might suffer from phimosis. A tight foreskin is a problem, a painful one. Also, most tantra masseuses have dealt with worse assholes than a hairy one. Just wash it clean, and you are golden. I would suggest you masturbate before going to see one, as it might help loosen the foreskin for the masseuse to work with. As I was clipped, I cannot relate to it, but I know of people who have phimosis. It is not your fault, its just a fact of nature sometimes. But just be relaxed and let the masseuse direct things, as your enjoyment will increase if you go with the flow, so to speak.

Thanks for your reply. I dont think I wanna masturbate at home because Ive been holding ejaculation for 3 weeks now and really want someone else to get going with it haha.  I suppose the oil will serve as lubricant?

But if i would tell the masseuse, dont retract my foreskin, will she comply and have mercy on it?

yes, at least a good one would. Oil or petroleum jelly. 

[staci]

Please get  medical opinion for a tight (painful) foreskin. You are young and sexual activity when you start, could be problematic. That area needs to be washed and cleaned often as it is susceptible to infections and if not done can and will omit a bad odor.

[Pornhubby]

I had circumcision in my late teens. No shame in getting clipped. You don’t want to be a smoldering fondue pot of dick cheese.

[Hilda]

I had circumcision in my late teens. No shame in getting clipped. You don’t want to be a smoldering fondue pot of dick cheese.

A friend had the procedure in his late twenties. He was writing a dissertation on the Berbers of North Africa, and wanted to spend a year among them. He was told that very bad things might happen if his hosts were ever to see an uncut dick. He decided not to risk it.

[Pornhubby]

I got to a point where erections were painful, and at that age, I had erections all the time. So it just seemed to make sense. Looking back on it, I have buyer’s remorse, but I think it was the right choice.

[wheninrio]

I can retract my foreskin when not erected, so I can clean it everyday and its not smelly. When im erect the foreskin just gets stuck somewhere and feels really stuck. I know circumcision is the the best solution but since I can have sex and can retract the foreskin when not hard I havent been really keen on getting one.