Hey I live in reality bub, I'm not seeking any kind of validity.
if that's your goal
Not a goal, merely a desire of mine. And its one I think can be achieved.
I'm not the least bit surprised that she resists. What I'm proposing after all is taboo. But what sparked her interest the first time she fooled around? I did something right, it just wasn't obvious. I just suggested it, and she 'said' she did it. Little kitty named Braxton. The next time come a year and some later, with the miniature schnauzer, Asa. We were already engaged when the dog wandered in and I patted her up onto the bed, Amber just smiled and let her have at it. Nothing unusual happened, she doesn't drink or take drugs, she just did it.
and wanting to hear how right you are. You will find it, I just don't think it will come from here
lolwut. What exactly am I right about? And what will I find?
I dont mean to be so crass but I have always had trouble expressing this kind of thing.
Here are some things to consider:
- She couldve left me years ago
- She has never outright said 'no'
- I have never given any kind of ultimatum, and I will tirelessly take care of her needs.
- she has given in before, although I'm not sure why, as she appears to have little to no affinity for the taboo.
I think she has a lot of uncertainty, I just havent the slightest clue how to alleviate these fears without losing ground or being flat-out rejected.